To Infinity and Beyond

My kids, Steve and Shel are now over forty years old. Wow! I have forty year old kids. If you don’t know, they are fraternal twins. I think I have to let that forty years soak in for awhile. Wife (mother) Gloria and I will always call them kids. We have a special license so we can do that. It’s called the parent license. It’s kind of like a poetic license.

We let our friends make use of the license too. It is OK for them to ask either “about the twins” or “How are the kids?”. It makes me feel younger or maybe it makes our friends feel younger. Probably lets everyone cope with the fact that our kids are getting close to our age.

At the moment of their births, we were infinitely older than they were. A year later we were 26 times older although only 25 actual years older. (26/1) Now we are only 1.625 times as old. (65/40) See… they are getting closer to my age.

Depending on your interpretation of infinity (Is it a point or just keeps going?) and living forever (another pure infinity concept)  we could be relationally the same age as our kids but always 25 years older. Math can be such fun. Um… Sorry, a bit of math nerdness is leaking out a bit here.

Taxes and death are two sure things in human life (in the USA) so I will never (The word “never” extends to infinity and beyond too…) experience being the same age as everyone else.

That’s OK. My goal is to take my little slice of life as it comes and enjoy having forty year old Children. Loving them both (and their families) will last me beyond infinity.

TEDEX Forums

If you read my other blogs and web sites you may have noticed I have done a bit of work getting the TEDEX forums a little more user friendly. I have taken them out of hiding and I am letting the world look at the contents again.

But that is as far as I will go. Non members will still not be able to view any attachments such as pictures. There is also no easy way to join the TEDEX forums. Prospective members will have to follow directions and figure out how to contact me by email and ask.

That’s how it is in the new networked world. The spoilers always try to impose on the privacy of society. They have no skills to contribute to the improvement of respectable web publishing so they try to gain notice by being anti-social and ignore the rules. Just the nature of the beast.

I have pushed back and thus generally let them force me to take action I feel is limiting my readers ability to openly communicate with me and each other. So it has to be, but in a way the benefits still outweigh the problems.

I don’t let a few spoil the fun of the many. Take another look at TEDEX forums.

A New Year’s Resolution for 2012

My List

The New Year is always seen as a fresh start by me and seems to be true for most other people. I know it is just a convenient calendar thing but it is as good a reason as any. I have an excuse to start the year with a fresh beginning. How well I stick to that resolution is another story.

I approach and somewhat hide from the fact that I am getting near the federal “suggested” retirement age. I realize I will have to come to some resolution with that event.

I also realize there is limited time for what is called a human lifespan. My resolution is to (somehow) leave a mark that I have passed along this way. For me that will be a keepsake my hands and mind have created. Please note I did not write “passed away.” That has a different connotation.

I do not have the ability to become a manufacturer in the sense of a large volume, mass producer.  The items I can make will be small scale and of an art craft variety. That thought feels comfortable to me. I would like to build heirloom quality last forever items. They will be my legacy.

My dad unfortunately left me no personally made items. I do feel some loss for that tangible evidence of his existence. It just wasn’t his thing. My grandfathers both fraternal and maternal did leave me items that help keep their reminder of past creativity. I hope I can pass those items and their meaning on to others.

That means I have to be producing something of interest or value of my own that it will be kept safe and be passed along. What I have to remember is to leave my identity on the item. Of that, I have already been reminded…

I have no requirement they be free gifts, given only to family and friends. It is better that I sell most of them for profit to continue making more items and supplement my retirement income.

There are many varieties of creatable items that can fulfill that ambition. I don’t think I can build a pyramid nor do I want to, but that is one of the “already been done” items anyway. Wealthy people sometimes have libraries built with their name above the door. This is the same concept in a less grand variation. I think I need to get down to a breadbox size item. (What’s a breadbox you ask?)

My fraternal grandfather produced pictorial art paintings. Such classic art will probably come and go as far as popularity. I don’t see much evidence of ordinary paintings hanging on walls these days, but I think they will always be kept if they have meaning to the owner. Traditional art is ageless.

My maternal grandfather’s legacy is in woodworking, mostly the furniture that he made or restored. Display is somewhat dependent on fashion of the time. But again if the owner has a connection to the builder (the artist if you will) it will be preserved and never thrown away. It has to be a quality and serviceable item. Plywood lawn art doesn’t qualify.

So clearly my goal and resolution from this point on is to spend my time making things that have the longest keepsake value. I must identify myself by those items. Dan was a potter, a picture taker; a candlestick maker, etc… please excuse the poetic license. I don’t fit in the tub.

The A3 locomotive project qualifies when completed, because of its quality and rarity; it will certainly be kept by someone somewhere in a collection for hundreds of years, but perhaps not by my family. That means I need to do more.

This 2011 resolution gives me some direction. This helps a lot. Writing it down strengthens the resolve. I have not created a build list but this is a resolution, not a specific a plan. Ha!

Freedom Lessons from TEDEX

I have been doing some posting in the TEDEX forums. It seems no one is paying attention these days but there is no way I can tell for sure.  Internet security issues require a totally private membership so it is hard for sincere new blood to contribute. TEDEX seems to be a closed society. That was and is not my intent.

Thankfully, real people still email me directly. The private correspondence would make good fodder for the forums or one of my blogs but I respect their privacy.

It is just too bad that my clean open TEDEX forums are pretty much a thing of the past.  The USA was built on the principle of freedom of expression (and the press.)  Forty five years ago I joined the US Navy to support and defend those principles of the USA to the world. Not all the world respects freedoms and privacy or knows the difference.

I have  concern about the US and other Press as they often try to destroy personal privacy (e.g. paparazzi and their publishers), a different issue. But celebrities are not public property. Saying they are, is pure misinformation to justify abuse of privacy.

I now realize a public open communication system is extremely easy to abuse. The abusers become the very vocal minority until they seem to be the majority. We have all heard those terms and it is true.

The Internet has become the epitome of the concept. The public freedom of expression is wonderful. I vote not to change it. But there is also the concept of private freedom that must be respected, but many times becomes the target of public abuse.

If I build a church for the purpose of quite (private) meditation and leave the door open for easy (public) access, is it OK to invade that space with an Acid/Hard Rock Band and play that music all day long? No, it is not OK with me and to me that is not the meaning of public freedom of expression. Look up all the meanings of the word private.

If the church must lock the door to keep the Rock Band out, what happened to real freedom? Now the church has changed the meaning of private more towards secret, and only members with the password (key) can gain entrance. What has freedom done to itself? What was intentionally just private is now suspected of being sinister because the door was closed and locked.

For example, there are many current inane attempts by the “media” to discredit the Masonic Order for having secrets. In my youth I was in DeMolay International, aka the Order of DeMolay. Did we have secrets?  Yes.  Sinister secrets? No. My father and grandfather never gave me Freemason secrets just because I was DeMolay. Am I somehow less of a person? Of course not.  It was my choice not to follow in their steps in the lodge for purely private and personal reasons. I am still proud to be associated because I believe I know the truth.

It’s when conflicting private freedoms collide that Utopian Ideals fail.

Public freedom is never an excuse for invasion of privacy. Private freedom is an equal right to public freedom, at least in the USA. I believe private freedom is more inherently free than public. The fact that privacy creates suspicion to public outsiders is a human trait. Misguided freedom fighters sometimes want to destroy privacy because of their suspicion. That doesn’t mean privacy is inherently evil. Many lies and falsehoods are created in the name of public freedom of expression.

Yes, privacy can be used to conceal the doing of evil and that can be a criminal activity. But that is no more a worry than what occurs in public.

Public freedom of expression has no guarantee of truth. It supports falsehood as an equal. Nazi Germany is an example. It suppressed private dissent to spread its brand of public disinformation.

I hope the world learned the lesson.

All I want is to offer a friendly open forum that will stay on topic. It must be too much to expect…

Paid Time Off

I am using up my excess PTO before the end of the year. That is Paid Time Off for the non corporate world. That started back when corporations of the Dilbert variety combined sick days and paid vacation into PTO. No more need to call in sick just to take a day off.

Corporations buy each other and merge benefits. That happened to me. I didn’t lose how many PTO days I can earn (at 14 years I am maxed out) but the limited number that can be carried over year to year changed to 50% less.

To encourage people to use their PTO the policy has always been (for my company) to use them or lose them except for the carry over. This is a philosophy promoted by HR (Human Resources) types to encourage a healthful life style by encouraging breaks from work. Time off for vacations. In Europe many countries take a MONTH off.

I notice a few of our younger associates (I have to be PC here) have been fully engrained with the full get away PTO lifestyle. They never have enough PTO and can’t wait until the next vacation. Somehow I enjoy what I do for a living and tend to conserve PTO.

Besides, being salaried and never putting in less than 10 working hours per day gives me a few hours for a dental appointment when I need it without filing for PTO. To some I may be a workaholic, but I do have a lot of outside interest (like projects in my workshop). They just don’t require PTO.

Many like me find extending paid holidays usually works quite well in devouring PTO days. Suddenly finding an extra week to use or lose at the end of the year has made the office rather thin staffed with us experienced old folks. We are no fools, if we are going to lose our PTO safety cushion and not get paid for days earned, then so be it. Use it!

It’s kinda fun but somehow scary (simulating retirement) with long periods of time off… At my age I guess I need to get used to it. I just filed for Medicare. Ha!